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Written by Kima   

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I think one of the most confused unsung communities here in India these days are the Arunachalis.

At one side, there is that situation of the big bad bully China flexing its muscles and claiming many parts of Arunachal Pradesh to be a part of its territory, while India tries its diplomatic best to convince the rest of India (and the World) that Arunachal Pradesh is indeed a part of India. And thus follows a volley of hard hitting tirades by experts, politicians, diplomats, patriots, journalists and bloggers, condemning China and promising never to let go of Arunachal Pradesh.

Feb 8, 2008: Arunachal is ours, PM can go there: India to China

And then at the other side, the average Arunachali comes to this part of the Country, Delhi, the Nation’s proud Capital, maybe to meet all those people who have warmly supported him and vowed to protect him from the Chinese aggression. And what does he find here? People openly mocking him because of his “strange foreign looks”, racially abusing him as “chinky” and rudely telling him to “go back to China”.

Feb 17, 2008: Arunachal students beaten up and told to go back to China

Just how do you think that person would feel? When he goes back to Arunachal Pradesh, what do you think he will be telling his family, his friends, his neighbors, his village panchayat raj, who are all eager to listen to the tales of his journey to Delhi that they cannot afford? What will be their general mindset about the rest of India then?

You can’t blame him for creating a generalization based on that unfortunate incident alone, because to him, that’s what affects him the most and that’s what lingers in his memory the deepest. He already felt alienated enough to be so “different” in Delhi, now he’s being discriminated because of that difference, with nobody else from the “other side” stepping up to assure him that that’s not the attitude of every other Indians. Can you picture the image of Delhi he’ll be painting to the others back home? What will their reaction be?

Frankly, I won’t be surprised if they turn against India. And when they do, they will be branded as terrorists, hunted out like dogs and silenced forever with nobody ever questioning why he took that path in the first place. I mean, who cares, right? After all, we’re talking about the North-East and he was attacking the Indian Constitution and the integrity of our proud Indian Nation, right? To the rest of India, this incident will just be another brick on the troubled NE wall.

Feb 16, 2008. MID-DAY reports:
5 N-E students assaulted after racial abuse
"We were preparing for the celebrations on February 20. Our friends went to the market to get their cell phone recharged when the shopkeepers racially abused them by calling them 'chinkies'. After an altercation, the local shopkeepers stabbed one of the students. They also used knife, iron rods and bamboo sticks to beat up the students. Chanakyapuri is considered to be a high security zone and even then, an incident like this has happened," Tabataka said.
The Hindu, on the other hand, downplayed the entire incident.
Eleven shopkeepers have been arrested by the Chanakyapuri police here on charges of assaulting some students from Arunachal Pradesh on Friday night. The police said the students had gathered at Aruchanal Bhawan for the State Day celebrations on February 20. They had gone to the local market for shopping around 9 p.m. As some shopkeepers passed objectionable comments on them, a brawl ensued in which the students were assaulted. Some of them were taken to RML Hospital.

On certain occasions, toning down sensitive incidents is a wise thing to do, especially when the incident is communal in nature. That’s where you draw the thin red line between serious journalism and sensational journalism. But in this case, do you think it is really necessary to muffle down the incident? Anyone reading “The Hindu” would wonder, what could be the “objectionable comment” that was uttered. Probably “maa ki”, à la Harbhajan Singh, without ever knowing how much the word “chinky” hurts us, that to be jeered a “chinky” when we are silently minding our own business is nothing but racism.

Racism begets racism.

Take it from experience and observation. In Mizoram, most of the older folks, around the age group of 50+ are still skeptical of every non-Mizo because the memories of the Indian Army “aggression” during the early 60’s are still fresh in their minds. Bombs raining down continuously on innocent towns and villages, day in and day out, gory tales of rape and murder, inhumane treatment at the makeshift prisons, all of which started because of the hungry little bamboo rat.

And then comes the next generation. And the next. Such generations are supposed to heal the scars inflicted through the passage of time. After all, the past is the past. There is no point in hating somebody for what one’s ancestors did to another’s ancestors a long time ago.

And so these new generations of Mizos travel around to other parts of the Country. Their Country, according to their history and geography books. The Central Government seems to welcome such an initiative, encouraging more exoduses of people, mainly in the name of education. The 7 and a half percent reservation for ST in the educational and central services makes it even smoother for Mizos and other people from the North-east to assimilate with the Mainstream population.

But once they get here, things aren’t always peaches and pie. Most people just expect them to let go of their respective cultures, traditions and heritages and practice only the traditions followed by the majority. And when the North-east students find it difficult to let go of their traditions (would you let go of yours if someone asks you to?), then they are labeled as “trying to be different” and branded as outcasts.

So, almost everywhere, northeast students find it easier to bond with other northeast students, regardless of whether they are from Mizoram, Arunachal or Nagaland (which many people STILL think is one entity) rather than bond with Mainstream Indians because of the way they are treated.

I love being in a multi-ethnic group. We once got into a pub-brawl a long time ago, when one drunken jerk came over to our table and insulted two of our south-Indian friends as “bloody pandis”. Just like that, with no reason of any provocation from our side. So we simply retaliated. Ah we were young, hot-blooded and united, those juvenile years.

But then, one outgrows that fist-fight stage as one matures. What I have observed now whenever I am in a single-ethnic group and some asshole shouts at us in public “chinky” or “ching chong, go back to China” or sometimes “go back to Chinkistan” (what the heck does “Chinkistan” mean? Chinky + Hindustan???), I have never had any support from the others around me. Most of them just stare at me (ME! Not the freaking guy who said that and is laughing his ass out), while some of them giggle and walk on.

The only time somebody ever helped me (and I remember this so well because it was the ONLY time) was in Mumbai when a nice middle-aged aunty with a curly bob-cut (the kind of stereotype Catholic Goan aunty that we see in our Hindi movies with names like Mrs. D’Costa, Mrs. D’Cruz or Mrs. D’Souza, who is full of compassion and grace) shouted at those four guys making fun of me in a very rebuking tone: “EXCUZE ME!!!” and they ran away before she could say anything else. Then she looked at me and I looked at her and nodded a thank you and both of us walked on. Life goes on.

The MNS has been heavily criticized by the Nation for beating up non-Maharashtrians and forcing them to go back to their respective “homes”. And so those “immigrants” flee back to UP, Bihar, Orissa and other Indian States. But when other Indians beat up people from North-east India and tell us to go back to China, oh please, do tell me, how can we do that? We are NOT from China, we don’t speak the same language, most of us don’t even follow the same religion (Mizoram, Nagaland and Meghalaya are Christian majority states).

Just like how people tell Muslims to go back to Pakistan, taunting a person from the North-east to go back to China is equally absurd. If the Government is really interested in creating a better relationship between people from the North-east and Mainland India, it first needs to revise its educational system at the root. And it needs to inform its crooked Delhi cops to stop victimizing people from the North-east, especially women from the North-east (please, don’t get me started on this one).

Until then, I will continue fighting for the rights of the North-eastern people. Maybe something similar to the Blank Noise Project can be initiated, which deals with the plight of the North-east student in your city. You have the power to make the difference, my friend. The next time you see a North-east girl/guy being racially abused in public, step up. And when that victim sees somebody from the “other side” coming to his/her aid, the preconceived notion borne by most north-east students is bound to change.

Whether you’re from Tamilnadu or Haryana or Maharashtra or Karnataka or Jammu & Kashmir, I beseech you not to be a mute spectator the next time you see somebody from the North-east being treated appallingly. I always get involve when I see injustice of any form or just to help an old lady cross the street regardless whether they belong to this community or that community, not just because of mere good intentions alone, but also because I believe in karma, so that somewhere out there, someone is returning the favor to somebody from the North-east.

I have to go to Court now, for I’ve just received news of yet another rape attempt by a group of students from Haryana, this time on a Manipuri girl, after her brother was beaten up and locked up in his room. Just another normal day for me. Sigh.

Ps. I’m not a lawyer. I’m just going to Court to meet my lawyer friends for more information regarding this incident.

Pps. North-East Support Centre website has not yet updated these two incidents about the Arunachal guys and Manipuri girl yet, because they are grossly understaffed as of the moment. You might not be able to get through to most of the numbers listed on the Support helpline, as most of them are volunteers (students) who have other important things to do too, like exams and assignments. Your understanding will be much appreciated. Thank you.

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Anonymous  - Very insightful   |220.227.179.5 |2008-09-09 22:40:47
very insightful article indeed. Hope more people read this article to reach out more people.
Paranjit Mahanta   |2009-08-10 16:28:11
avatar passing unfriendly comments seems to be a part of indian people.
chintan  - der is always a second side of coin...   |58.68.121.98 |2009-10-22 21:28:40
indeed it is gud article but u noo wen people write these kind of articles they hide what is other side of coin bcoz it hurts the theme of the article.so its a humble request to the author and a
challenge that just write 10 lines abt the gud experiences..then only we can judge is der really mishappenings..and unfortunate things happening wid north east people..these kind of protest against
outsiders exist in each state..my personal experience with aassam and karanataka is not even gud but i feel tht was not the thing to raise hate against them...it does happen ...its nt tht much easy
wen smbdy comes at u home and u open ur arms for him..it takes time..and even aft accepting der exist a friction...but it is obvious..india is like a kitchen basket full of different kind of
utensils...sm r fragile..sm r robust..they collide..they hit ...they brake..but they stay 2gethr...this wat i proud.....
Rajesh  - ALL has faced this   |195.229.235.38 |2008-12-15 20:03:53
dear Freind

what you people are facing all indians has faced this and still facing,, as indian belive in teasing, south are called anna, madrasi, lungi , idli wada, gujjus are called ganda bhai,
ghas puss, marwadi are called kanjoos, baniya, north indian bhaiyas, marathis as topi, tambaku.. so if u are called chinkies then u need not feel bad.. this is common. only thing north east is now
integrating with other states, where as others has flocked long time back. in mumbai, who ever it may be, we retaliate specially we have special respect for our north east people.. we call them
nepali.. they also call anna, topi,, bhaiya.. dare if any one act smart with them on road and escape with out getting hit by locals.. people will not discriminate just because they look different..
infact they get special prefernce as mumbai always help the weak .. but u can see many times people call madrasi to some black guy and some laughs and some walk away.. similarly this is attitude
towards all by all of our indians.. so good thing what is hapening is , young crowd is travellign and getting accepted.. it will take time and slowly will get accepted.. sitting in your village u cant
keep on getting afraid..
Pankaj   |124.124.161.151 |2010-04-19 20:57:53
U r totally Wrong u know my dear fren......Did u ever get a news of Gujrati or ny south Indian being raped in Delhi or a Delhi girl being teased or raped in Bangalore......
Its ok wen someone is doin
Majak wid u as friendly type even we r alright wid the term chinky.....But wat abt teasings,assault,Rape n Racial attacks......Did all these happens wid an south Indian or North Indian or any east
Indian in the past history.....The Answer definitely is "No"...
Then why it is happening or happened wid the North-East Indian people.....Shall we take this as Majak or friendly
behaviour.......
Not surprised  - Not Surprised   |122.163.102.80 |2008-12-23 01:33:16
Lets face it. Indians use ethnic slurs like it's no one's business. There is little concern for the cordiality associated with race relations in our country, because everyone takes it for granted. As
Rajesh says, we are all guilty of it. But first place to start? Don't refer to yourself as "Chinky". That is the language of your oppressors. It is reductionistic and says nothing about your
history and culture for which you should be proud of as a significant contribution to our country's diversity. If anyone hurls the word 'chink' at you in Delhi, tell them that you are a proud Indian
from Arunachal Pradesh who has probably done more for his country than that sorry smut peddler who hurled the insult at you. In fact, tell him to go 'back to Pakistan' and then see how he feels.
Rajesh   |195.229.236.216 |2009-01-11 06:12:42
Excellent .. North east has given more sportsperson to our country than any other states.. we need north east as we can make them our china.. we are proud that we have people who look like chinese
they have quality to work hard honest and sincere. if any one says you chinki.. just say the most decorated regiment of india is not from delhi or punjab.. its from ghurkha community.. We are proud of
our north east community.. why should u worry.. we are there to protect you as you all protect us from china border
Hariharan Bhojan  - The Curse of Delhi...   |122.162.154.25 |2009-01-12 10:00:21
I can empathise with the writer of this article to the maximum possible extent. Iam seeing it day in and day out, the remorseless indifference of a predominant class of Upper Class, Middle Class and
Lower Class Delhi-ites to mock at people from other regions. Iam sure the intensity is too less in other cities like Bangalore or Chennai. Having travelled more than 15 countries on business and met
different cultures, at times I feel very shameful to call myself Indian when I see these day-light atrocities. Im a South Indian and been a part of rebuke (indirectly) quite a few times when I landed
up in New Delhi 3 years ago as a country manager of a Hongkong company, for my poor knowledge of Hindi (Iam Anglo-Indian educated, women do find me charming with my dusky looks and clean speech). For
me, I take such people as frustrated personalities with a low self esteem. It shows their class, jealousy, hopelessness and insecurity when they meet a confident person.

I travelled in Sikkim and
Darjeeing last october on holiday, I found the people to be just like my own community (http://www.badaga.org), very loving, caring and soft.

I would suggest my north eastern brothers/sisters to be
stronger, bolder and never be let down these comments go to your heart. India is colorful because of you and me, so let us hope and wish for a better future.
Hariharan Bhojan   |122.162.154.25 |2009-01-12 10:03:23
For me, I take such people as frustrated personalities with a low self esteem. It shows their class, jealousy, hopelessness and insecurity when they meet a confident person.

I travelled in Sikkim
and Darjeeing last october on holiday, I found the people to be just like my own community (http://www.badaga.org), very loving, caring and soft.

I would suggest my north eastern brothers/sisters
to be stronger, bolder and never be let down these comments go to your heart. India is colorful because of you and me, so let us hope and wish for a better future.
Rajesh   |195.229.236.216 |2009-01-13 18:42:55
yes friend.. we all should forget what we are hindu muslim. northu southu gujju maru bhaiya.. and live like indian.. and north east people were never adventourus so they so far stayed in their
community but now the young generation is very sporty and i can see guys and girls in indian idol.. news.. and all soo u will go thru few suffering what all had faced. but will be accepted easily
Pankaj   |124.124.180.166 |2010-04-19 21:27:41
What you had written is alright but again you are wrong in one statement my Bro and that is "North-Eastern People are not adventurous".
May be you don't have much knowledge of Armed forces and
Martial Arts thats why you are saying like that......
If you get time just go and visit the Training camps of Indian Armed forces you will find north-east instructors there giving training lessons to
our North and other regions soldiers....
Most of the well performed NSG cadets are from North-east.
Just visit Manipur Martial Art academy then only you came to know that what martial art and
adventure is all about.....
Just watching roadies and Bollywood movies doesn't define you the term adventure,got it?
Hope after getting knowledge of all these u will eliminate the statement "NE
peoples are not adventurous" from your mind.......
rashika   |122.169.8.29 |2009-04-11 01:29:21
hey hi,
I quite second you on this issue. your writing is awe inspiring.
rajesh   |86.96.228.89 |2009-04-11 20:30:09
hi

you have seconded whom??
A. Dey  - Humans can be sadistic   |122.173.231.83 |2009-06-27 03:42:22
I think humans have an innate sadistic side which makes them pick up on someone who stands out. It's like small kids torturing the legs off a bug or stoning dogs and cats. Us humans have to control
these vicious behaviours of ours. And others in the form of the law and other people have to help enforce this control.
cs   |124.124.233.11 |2009-11-10 18:40:22
all north easteren peoples are a strong part of india.....

they can not be humiliated........

this article will create a bad effect on those who have an average image about india....

arunanchal is
part of india......n all of its people are firmly affilited with india......

so i can say we should respect the feelings of N E peoples....
Listen man You people are our brothers and sisters.....
May
god give some mind to those who make such "go back to china".these people should be punished.........
Chinky or not  - Aliens     |121.245.67.196 |2010-02-19 05:24:09
Funny India ... thats what this nation is ... people from one state treat people from other state as aliens ... beings from some other world ... they mock .. they hurt ... they do things to others
that they would never do to their own community. This is India. No state in India can accept people from other state. They will never get close with others. Fear .... Greed ... Pride ... Hatred ....
and the general narrow mindedness with a very scant knowledge of the people living in other states of India ... be it in Delhi, Kolkata, Mumbai, Chennai, Guwahati, Imphal...etc. to mock,
humiliate,tease, torture etc. the people of other states. When will we be INDIANS and not NE people or North Indian or South Indian or Punjabis,Bengalis, Oriya...

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